“I had recently quit smoking and was having a very hard
time with it. I had a couple of emotional crises in the first two weeks
that caused me to fall off the wagon. Frustrated with what I perceived as
weakness, I went to Mark for help.
He explained some of the causes for smoking addiction to me
and I immediately related to the "stuffing" of emotion. Every time I have begun
smoking again it had to do with some emotional crisis that I did not want to
deal with.
Mark used gentle touch to draw my attention to the back of
my ribs and my lungs. I was suddenly overwhelmed with an intense emotion… and I
laughed. I was very aware that I laughed instead of cried. Very interesting.
Mark suggested that it might be more productive for me if I tried to go with
what I was feeling instead of fighting it. From there he continued to guide my
attention using touch and we began exploring some areas in my body where I held
some deep and serious trust issues with males. It was very intense but I tried
to keep with it and work through the emotions I was experiencing.
By the end of the session, I felt very calm and peaceful.
What I noticed at once was that the knot at the back of my neck, which had been
growing tighter and tighter over the last year (and which no amount of massage
seemed to be able to penetrate), was completely gone. My shoulders were
completely loose and free. Since this session, my cravings for cigarettes have
dramatically reduced.
I recently had a phone call from my mom (one of the prime
triggers for past smoking misteps). There was yet another crisis in her life
that I could do nothing about. It was a difficult phone call. Usually I would
have reached for a cigarette right after talking to her! The remarkable thing
is that I did not even realize until the next day that I didn't even think about
having a cigarette. That is truly amazing.
Since the session I have continued to feel much more
relaxed and the tension in my neck and shoulders has not returned. Mark
explained that I have the tools now to confront and work through future
emotional crises without resorting to smoking. I'm more aware now where the
cigarette cravings originate from and finally feel like I have the capability to
be free of them. ”
- Karen
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